Bath Room Manners

Why is it that mannors in a Public and Private restroom are different?Public is it fair to ask your neighbor in the next  portable for toilet paper?Could you just knock on your left or right side to politely ask for some paper?I mean when you in a rush I dont think the mind looks around for it.Or is there a rule against this please let me know? Why is that when man go to use the urinal that someone decides to pass gas and then talk to you?This is so not cool and against all man rules.If you are urinating. please dont fart and try to have a conversion with me.Make sure to wash those nasty hands.When using the bathroom portable why is it that most folks go to the disable one?I mean from experience I've done this all my life but one day someone in a wheelchair had to go.In my mine I was like this is so wrong but on the other hand, I politely lefted my feet and kept doing my business.Now Private bathroom,is like a family or your own.Why do people believe it's ok to go to someone else's house and not wipe down there toilet seat?Or have the nerves to leave water on the counter of the sink or the window.Please if you drop the kids to the pool,try and look for any kind of stabilizer for that smell(Men and Women).I think the worst part of using someones bathroom at there home is people do not like placing the lid down and closing the door.Do you think that we want to hear the water from the toilet?Is it ok the use the bathroom at home and someone is using the shower?I dont know about you but like most Americans,I have some bathroom mannors but most people have no clue.Please let me know about your experiences and facts about bathroom mannors.

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